Thursday, February 3, 2011

Kali Yug - Issue 1 - Personal Space !!!!

Lack of personal space has become a major issue in lives of many people. A husband feels his personal space is getting intruded when he sees his wife all the time and same is the case with the wife. The condition has increased to such a state that if u see someone for more than an hour for few days one feels that the personal space has been completely destroyed by the other.


Whenever personal space issues are talked about what comes into my mind is ---

A mother carries a child for 9 months the child does not leave the mother for even a second. Then she takes care of the child till he/she is able to take care of himself / herself which is 10 years (according to Indian system). Just imagine if mothers start complaining about personal space and time for herself what will be the condition of the child.

So.... what is this... personal space....issue ... ??

When one does not have control over ones life and things don't go properly or as one wishes... one feels ...everyone around are creating problems. But the interesting fact is when u start shouting u do that to the person u are most close to, little realising that your irritation or failure is not due to that person but the others whom you will never question.

So.. instead of complaining and shouting and in the end hurting people who love u the most why dont we just sit and think and find out the real issue .....or may be .....now a days people might be really getting bored of seeing the same face and hearing the same voice ....

because ... now we have so many choices.... u can choose ur dress and keep changing when u get bored of it...and stop eating a particular dish when u dont like it any more......keep changing the serials u are watching....

All are after fun and enjoyment which is completely superficial. No one wants anyone to question them or ask them opinions or give them suggestions ...all want to live as they wish and do whatever they want. No attachments and no strings attached..."Live everyday as if it is ur last day " .... a quote misquoted and misused.

...........KALI YUG .......